In our day to day lives, we often come across people that you just don’t click. They may be having different characters that you do not like or you may have quarreled and maybe naturally you two can’t just get along. Well, there are options for avoiding such people but for how long? Only the mountains do not meet.
“One day in life you might find that person in your line of work either your partner or your boss,” said Issa Asad Florida entrepreneur and social media expert. Mr. Asad is the CEO of Q Link Wireless and Quadrant Holdings, located in South Florida. He is also the author of 4 e-commerce and marketing e-books that can be purchased on Amazon.
Either way, you have to cope with them looking at the brighter side. Here, Issa Asad Reveals How Successful People Handle People They Don’t Like
1. Be mindfulness.
This is the solution to toxic people. When a person you dislike is near you and every time he/she talks you get irritated, well the best thing to do is to nod and then put a smile. As hard as it may be, remember the smile is trying to control the emotions that you are feeling deep inside of anger and hatred. Successful people handle toxic people by being mindful.
2. Never take any of their actions personally.
Sometimes you may be discussing an important idea with that person and then he/she tends to be selfish and suggesting ideas that only involves them. Well, this can get to a point of annoyance. The best way is to ask for more explanation in a broad manner just to get to that person’s perspective. It might choke you to remain calm but learn on how to put on a poker face. Remember basically the main goal here is to achieve a certain goal and keeping it professional not to get personal.
3. Rise above and do not stoop low.
One of the reasons successful people reach that level is by keeping their head high. Remember these are the same people that most likely have haters all around them. But they keep their heads high. In an instance where they come into contact with toxic people, they do not stoop low to their levels. Keep focus and to the point that brought the two or more of you together. Stick to the topic and no matter what do not let anger or emotions get in your way.
4. Choose your battles.
This is the wisest thing to do. Sit down and weigh the benefits and the losses. Is this person worth? Is the toxic person more of a helper or a loser? Is the person adding value to your life or draining your energy? If he is adding value to your life more then take advantage of him and put aside the grudges. Drop the negative and see the positive in him. That way you will be able to cope with that person and be able to control and calm your anger because you are focusing on the positive. Always stay positive.
These are some of the tips that successful people use to handle people they do not like. They always look on the brighter side. Goals ambitions and success are hence able to cope and handle them well.